As a Law of Attraction business coach, I often speak about alignment, clarity, and intention but there’s another, quieter piece of the puzzle: openness.
Openness is less about chasing and more about not shutting things down too quickly.
I’ve always had a naturally curious, open personality. I enjoy conversations. I ask questions. I linger a little longer than most. And I’ve come to see how much that simple trait has shaped my life, and expanded my knowledge.
Recently, a woman stopped by my home looking for a cat. It would have been easy to politely end the exchange and move on with my day. I had a schedule. Tasks waiting. But I stayed. We talked for a few minutes.
And during that unexpected conversation, she shared an opportunity, one that would allow me to move forward on a passion project that has lived in my heart for some time.
This isn’t the first time something like this has happened.
A thoughtful exchange with a woman seated next to me on a plane.
A brief connection while walking into an appointment.
Moments that could have been transactional. But weren’t.
Doors tend to open to ordinary spaces.
When Openness Doesn’t Come Naturally
Here’s the key: openness doesn’t require you to become someone you’re not. If you’re naturally reserved or more task-focused, you don’t need to overhaul your personality. You simply need small, intentional shifts.
If openness doesn’t come naturally, try this:
- Pause before closing a conversation.
Instead of defaulting to “I need to run,” allow one more question. One more minute. - Lead with curiosity.
Ask, “What do you do?” or “How did you get into that?” Curiosity creates connection without pressure. - Loosen your internal timeline.
Not every interaction has to be efficient. Leave a little white space in your day for the unexpected. - Say yes selectively but consciously.
You don’t have to say yes to everything. But check whether you’re saying no out of … or alignment.
Clearing Emotional Blocks to Become More Receptive
As a business coach and Certified Emotion Code Practitioner, I’ve seen how the unresolved emotions we carry can quietly close us off. When we release what’s weighing on us, we become more receptive, open to receiving. If you’re ready to create space for new opportunities, in your work, your relationships, or your next passion project, I’d love to support you. Reach out to learn how the work of emotion clearing and alignment can help you open the doors already waiting for you.
